Monday, April 13, 2015
MORNING MUSIC
Thursday, April 9, 2015
TARNISHED
I am wearing a pin today.
It is shaped like star.
a quirky, silver, 3 and a 1/2 inch star.
It sat in my drawer for years
and was worn occasionally.
It was tarnished.
But I liked it
and I wore it.
If I ordered a steak medium
and it was served well done,
I could eat and enjoy it
If a friend showed up 40 minutes after we'd planned to meet for coffee,
Id be sitting there relishing the peace,
or the people watching or a good book.
and then thoroughly enjoy my visit with them.
If it rains instead of being sunny out,
I enjoy the clean smell of it washing over my day.
You get that I am low maintenance,
and for the most part that ability has served me well in life
Back to the star pin.
I took a couple of my moms rings to Brad at Rogers and Hollands Jewelers before wearing them.
(I had lost a stone from an older ring in the past and it had been uninsured.)
After Brad had cleaned and assessed the wearability of the rings, he said
"Let me see that star pin"
He took it for a couple minutes and when he returned it was shining so brightly that tears ran down my cheeks.
The GIFT Brad gave me in that moment was the realization that while the ability to be content, and grateful for life's kindnesses, and being low maintenance has served me well in a lot of ways,
My LIFE like that star pin doesn't have to remain tarnished.
It was designed to Shine
and completely reflect
all of the light and beauty around it.
I will still find enjoyment in serendipitous moments, challenges, and things that are just not on my favorite things list, but...
Thank You Brad.
I will no longer ever SETTLE for tarnished
in my life
in my health
in my relationships
in my finances
in my career
in my surroundings.
Because I know that BRILLIANCE is always possible!
Lets all ROCK THE SPACE WE'RE IN
this week, by using a bit of spiritual, physical, nutritional or mental Tarn-X
or whatever works for you,
on what ever is making our lives dingy or blurred or less than the degree of dazzling we want to experience in any moment.
Love and Peace of Mind,
DELIGHT, and Clarity of Purpose,
to You and those you love,
JOY
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
You. (YES...YOU!!!)
It has been way too long since we have been together dear ones.
When you lose your connections with people who you are truly connected with, heart to heart, and with spirit ties, it is easy to forget who you are and lose the best parts of yourself.
Since we have been apart, I have lost my smile, my laughter, and my tendency to see the best in everything and everyone.
Amazingly it has taken less than a year for me to lose the wonderful, optimistic creative loving person that I was, and become an angry hurting invisible shell of a human being.
Well,... I'm back now... And ready to be the person I was created to be. Free, and full of love , and appreciation for the life I am given each day.
I have been spending what time I have, reconnecting with people who I have shared life with in positive ways.
From today forward, I will be doing life, with people who are desiring and intending to live with integrity and love toward myself and others around them.
You...( Yes YOU! ) are one of those people.
Join us back here at bordering on magnificent.com to regularly be part of a journey that brings the opportunity to experience being more aware of valuing and validating those around us.
Rock the space you are in today by making eye contact with those who matter to you.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Saturday, May 4, 2013
PLANNING
When there are no real choices...
I tend to stop planning.
When there seemed to be only a long list of " have-to-do's"
I would just run down the check list
each day and just...
get through it.
Now...with my time as my own
I have been PLANNING and executing
every day.
Resources are arriving, and I am moving forward and living a healthier life.
Along with that freedom comes the responsibility to LEARN to PLAN
even better than I know how.
A trip out east by train for mom's 80th
birthday, takes PLANNING.
Even for a few days,
it takes:
LOOKING at the train schedules, BUYING tickets,
GETTING transportation to the station, SAVING $$$ for the trip.
Its SO EASY to have the FREEDOM to choose, and having my own time to schedule...
but it is a Special skill set
to be Learned ...(QUICKLY)
if I am to make the MOST of this LIFE I've been blessed with.
Join me on this journey
even if you've already ARRIVED.
I am PLANNING
( in even greater detail )
To Rock The Space I'm In...Well.
Love And Delight,
Peace of Mind and
CLARITY OF PURPOSE
To you and those you love,
JOY
Sunday, April 14, 2013
PARKING
Sometimes you may need to park for a very short time... maybe even just a moment or two. Well, that's actually called standing. But parking, real parking, could end up being anywhere from 5 or 10 minutes to hours or possibly even days, or weeks.
The places that you park, vary.
Maybe you park at the train station when you go to work downtown for the day. Maybe just for an hour in a grocery store parking lot. There's Parking/ Tail gaiting at a Bears game or NASCAR event. And even trying to fit into a space in the city while all the crazy traffic is zipping by you.
Many times people are concerned or fearful of leaving their car in a parking lot or using a parking garage. Quite often one doesn't know if your car will still be there in good condition when they get back and in the other case people especially women are fearful of parking garages that are often not well lit or patrolled.
There is also ANOTHER kind of parking that comes to mind for me.
That is the kind of parking that is mindlessly done so often, in our lives , to the point that we are unaware that we are even doing it.
Maybe it is because there does not seem to be a fee or charge to pay for this kind of parking,
but in reality this is the most expensive parking human beings do.
This parking cost more than money, and does not even involve your car.
This parking will cost you your life.
Explaining:
The Huron street parking garage is connected to Northwestern Memorial Hospital. The people who own and run and work at this garage are exceptional.
The garage not only is clean,
but well lit and patrolled with friendly security people who maintain the place like you were family.
Compassionately there is also a discounted rate given through the hospital to those who park there while visiting their loved ones.
This half rate is especially vital for people who are losing income due to illness and can not afford much extra outside of they're normal bills and living expenses.
THIS IS A GREAT PLACE TO PARK.
It is a great choice!
But what about some of the places that we park our Lives?
Home
Work
Relationships
Or you name in your head, where you feel you may have parked a bit to long.....
Kind of dimly lit?
Difficult to see what is ahead for you?
Dirty, Dingy, and Disrespected environment and surroundings?
A lack of concern or compassion for those who are parked there?
Yeppers! The cost can be high. Too High when it comes to it costing you your life to park there.
Just like you don't usually take a trip without planning, ....when did we stop planning for the trip that is called
our life?
When did we learn to settle for less and less and less and still think we were in a good spot.
Today's challenge is to call things what they truly are.
Assess our ability to make things better in the place we currently have parked our life.
Total up the real cost.
And decide if it's time,
and if there is a way for us
to hit the open road again.
Try driving with the "top down" in a sense, on the next good weather day.
Give the front windshield a quick cleaning and take a good long look at where you're heading on the road ahead of you.
And for a second, only a quick second take a look into the rearview mirror and remember where you have been parked.
Ask yourself if there are any new adventures and experiences that would make your life and your bank account healthier and more satisfying.
Remember that you have a Licence, NOT just a permit....
and Remember who is in the Driver's seat of your life.
Love and peace of mind
Delight and clarity of purpose,
to you and those you love,
JOY
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
BEND OVER
What do you think when you hear the words bend over.
As a child I learned to be very afraid of those words. Whatever I had done prior to hearing the words, bend over was usually the very thing that I was about to receive either a whipping with my dads belt, or a whole bunch of very painful whacks with the solid oak wooden fraternity paddle which my mom had from College.
Either way...this wasn't looking good.
That was then. This is now...
BEND OVER has a whole new meaning for me now...and I LOVE it!
I recently bent over in a very special way.
Sitting in a chair, I bent over...to tie my shoes. And not only leaning forward was I still able to breath...but able to carry on a brief conversation at the same time.
Then I said to my friend...LOOK! I can put both of the palms of my hands flat on the floor.
The stress weight I have been carrying on my stomach is beginning to burn off
I have gotten rid of 4 pounds this week.
I have eaten only GOOD fuel and drank only vitamin water.
All of my URGES for Fast Food are gone.
And I will awaken alert and ready for my day at 7:30 a.m.
So...breathing is great, but bending over...forwards and backwards...
BOTH....are making me much more flexible.
Like I used to be!
Love and peace of mind
delight. and clarity of purpose
to you and those You Love,
Joy
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
VARIETY
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GREATNESS
TODAY I shook the hand that shook the hand of someone historically significant in Argentina.
I've worked with this wonderful woman for years, but never ate lunch with her, or got the chance to share our lives much.
TODAY, when asked by this dear lady if I am doing o.k. ......
I busted out SINGING the first line of the tune:
"DON'T CRY FOR ME ARGENTINA!"....
Well ...I was floored that something this simple could bring up a topic of who's famous hand she shook.....
Ask her....
she's in the housewares department or hard home as its called.
She is lovely and hard working and honest, and like everyone else on the planet...has a 30 second story that would amaze you.
No one is expendable in the history of this planet.
And this simple comment reminded me that people go to a job,
and wear a uniform of sorts,
and chug down their list of requirements, coupons and such
while someone's monitoring, devaluing and critiquing their performance...
...all the while requiring them to become less interactive and less human.
Glad for a chance to hear this 20 to 30 second event... a seriously cool event in this woman's life.
Its these life experiences that make for a better sales associate interaction with customers...but wait...that was when we used to do clientele and customer service at its best.
Developing a RELATIONSHIP with the customer was the PRIORITY that brought REAL customers back to shop again & again.
You and I understand
that having a brief conversation
with the women who offers up to you that THIS...a trip to OUR store...
was her FIRST outing
AFTER 6 months of CHEMO.
Is NOT being " chatty".
Really. ....
Well ...with 10 people in line behind her and 3 of us ringing and 2 managers drinking coffee somewhere....you can BET I am going to
effectively take care of her transaction.REMOVE ALL of her SENSORS......serve her with a smile...
AND INTERACT with her like the brave, beautiful, human being that she is.
Tell me not to get so " Chatty"
Tell me to move through the line quicker.
Tell me to focus on getting
someone to open a credit card.
Y'all can try doing a 2 hour shift alone, or a 15 person line by yourself, with the customers laughing and pleasant while waiting.... tell me then, that your associates don't have "skills" that most of You never even bother to see.
Take a class
from your dock guys
and tracks ladies
and door greeters who are like the life blood of the store circulating throughout the departments.
They see and know, and are part of
how much is handled all day long ...often without any MOD assistance by your ordinary associate...
There is a family
a team of people
who have each others backs
AND each others hearts
and leap right in to help each other.
All day,
Every day.
I like to call them...
HEROS.
Cleverly Disguised as Store Associates
and a couple of managers as well....
Who Save the ASS of your store
More times per day
Than you will ever take the time
To care to know about.
ROCK THE SPACE YOU'RE IN HEROES.
You always do!
Love and Peace of Mind
Delight and CLARITY of Purpose,
To you and those you love,
JOY