Bordering on magnificent. LIVING

I am LIVING... not merely existing.     I am doing what I can do, each day,  to make my life as amazing and meaningful and beautiful as possible.

Take my butt for example.

Somebody  playfully smacked it as they walked by today, kinda like football players do, and I realized that INSTEAD of a big, huge, jello pillow of dimpled flab under my jeans....
I  want, and am going after an A$$ so firm  you could bounce a quarter off of it!

Now THAT is a specific and defined goal.!


I am not making any list of "resoloutions" this week.

I am just taking MASSIVE and CONTINUOUS ACTION on the things that I  ALREADY KNOW need to be done.

Let's all agree to stop dreaming or wishing for the life we want....and instead, go " BALLS OUT" after it.
Right Now. TODAY.

Let me know how you are
Rocking The Space You're In,  AND what Massive Actions you are taking to make a Better Space for yourself to Rock in!

Love and delight
peace of mind and Clarity of Purpose, to you,
and those  you love,
JOY

Bordering On Magnificent. HOLIDAY

Today was a true Holiday for me. 
My life is lived in a hubbub of people and noise 
and requests and demands and unreasonable,.... 
even irrational  requirements and standards 

particularly at work.

 But today I had Peace AND Quiet.

 I have a GIFT for making amazing things out of crap circumstances,

 to the degree that a women actually waited in line a few moments longer because she felt I was "magical" and WANTED Me to be the one to take care of her so we could talk for a minute. 

I wasn't aware she had even given someone else "cuts" in line to achieve this moment with me.   I'm sharing this, not to brag,  but to say that I work with and am surrounded by brilliant and amazing people who rarely hear just how beautiful talented wise unique or valuable they are.   

So...often... their gifts and abilities and value

goes

unmentioned,

unnoticed,

unacknowleged,

and UnReceived by those who were intended to be blessed by their presence in this world.

Did you ever notice the look of disbelief or confusion on the face of someone you've complemented admired or appreciated?

it is because most people are never really SEEN as a GIFT.   
Let's try  ROCKING THE SPACE WE'RE IN THIS WEEK 
by  Speaking words to others about the qualities we SEE in them. (even strangers)
This will of course truly involve LOOKING at those around us and near us 
from the heart.

That's exactly how I spent the last part of my husband Rick's life, 
including the last breaths he took here almost  20 years ago.

Let me know how it goes for you.

Love and Peace of mind, 
Delight and Clarity of Purpose, 
to you and those you love,   
JOY

Bordering On Magnificent Stepping Up

Stepping Up.

I have learned alot about Stepping Up from my amazing daughter Amy.

She is TRULY
Rocking the space she's in by making adult decisions for the care of her grandma.

Amy has grown stronger both in handling the challenges in life  but also
in embracing the
" adventure of the unknowns. "
 Knowing Amy better this year has given me a reason to keep rocking the space Im in...and to keep expanding that space to even better places!!!!